World turns

People around me never fail to surprise me. The general consensus nowadays is this: while there is no doubt that the people around me are surprised that I'm doing good now, someone still has to pay for the grief back in the day. It's the first time I'm learning about this, and I have questions. How do you make people pay for a thing people deem unfathomable such as falling out of love? Why is there no guilt? Why am I okay with all these things? Is there anything to pay for? The thing with forgiveness is you make a decision to get a clean break from the past hurt in order to make your present and future brighter. To clarify: I did not forget but I forgave. Love is a beautiful thing and when it's gone, while it's normal to look for it and crave for it, it's more important to understand why love was lost and to learn from the loss to move forward. I'm no expert in these things but I certainly do not want to spend the rest of my life paralyzed by sadness or loneliness because someone cannot love me anymore. No one will ever know how much we suffer when we go through a loss. Only we can decide how long we should suffer and how best to move on. Just to make things clear: everything's fine now. It's your turn to move on :)